In July 2025, we invited young people, from Year 4 to young adult age, to share openly about their experiences of church. We heard from 96 young people from Baptist Churches in SA & NT. Their answers were thoughtful, hopeful, and clear.
Here’s what they want you to know.
They long for connection
Young people want meaningful relationships across generations. Many feel disconnected from older adults and would value mentorship, but aren’t sure how to build those relationships.
They want leaders to notice them. To ask about their week. To speak directly to them, not just to their parents.
Friendships within church can be tricky, especially when trying to enter established social circles. And for many, church isn’t somewhere they’ve chosen to attend; it’s simply where their family goes.
They struggle to engage
Many respondents shared that sermons don’t always feel relevant or relatable. Services are often geared towards older people, while young people want fresh, interactive, visual services.
They’re looking for real-life application. Space to ask questions. Teaching that connects faith with everyday issues for them; think dating, relationships, mental health, identity, and culture.
They want to understand God
Encouragingly, many expressed a genuine desire to learn more about God. However, church language can feel complex or assumed.
They’re asking for clarity. Simpler explanations. Respectful communication.
Tone matters. Speaking down to young people or preaching in a way that feels patronising quickly disengages them.
Interestingly, several wished youth group included more intentional teaching about God, not just activities.
They want to be heard
Young people want their voices welcomed and their ideas valued. Some feel held back from volunteering due to confidence or lack of opportunity. They want to be contributors, not just attendees.
They are grateful
Throughout the survey, one theme stood out: gratitude.
They repeatedly mentioned that they notice and appreciate when effort is made to make church more accessible to them.
This wasn’t a critique. It was an invitation to listen, to connect, and to build churches where young people truly belong.
words by Ruth Grace
Editor, Together in Mission
